That display was all it took for my cock to twitch and show more signs of life, though I was reluctant to let Veronica see that I still had fuck left in me. I needed at least a few minutes to catch my breath. I sat back down in the love seat, nearly expired. Everyone was quiet for probably a minute before I guessed the scenario had been played out, for now, and tried to satisfy my curiosity. She smiled wide now, meeting my eyes as she sat fully upright, simply gorgeous from head to toe.
That was a short series of shitty experiences, so I kind of swore boys off for a whe sexual fun, in more loving closeness. Sex is a game played between two partners. Yet, couples vary in their capacities to appreciate sex and in their feelings as to what is exciting. Awareness is needed to begin changing the sexual scenario. A sensitive and eager wife finds her own ways to avoid the goody groove.
One found that changing the lighting in the bedroom gave her and her husband a newness which they enjoyed. DISCOVER NOVELTIES One husband may like to undress his wife tenderly bit by bit. Another may like her to enter the bedroom topless. Does the wife know it?
Or does she persist with the conventional way? Exciting sex on a healthy basis is possible where there is mutual trust empathy. One is stimulated by new words, new gestures, fresh sequences. But one must be reasonably sure that these novelties are mutually pleasurable. Experimentation and variety become tiresome unless partners find ways that put them in closer touch with their own and their partner's wants and wishes.
Each needs to tune in on one's own and partner's thoughts, feelings and actions to work at achieving and maintaining communication. The aim is to experiment with the 'emotional as well as the physical. The goal is reaching the gold mine of hidden happiness. One easy way is by simply touching each other and exchanging information about what is most pleasing. Discover and try new positions. New techniques for mutual arousal, of feelings about what is happening and modifications suiting individual requirements and open those portals of love paradise earlier hidden from each other. Love becomes mutually shared and enjoyed.
It promotes joy and more love. It builds on and keeps building trust, respect, concern, tenderness, caring. It enriches life. Communication is unlikely to lead to boredom. It leads to emotional delight and sexual intimacy. The more natural you make your sexual relationship, the better it becomes. Express yourself. Make your partner express himself or herself. This mutual sensitivity to the needs and desires of your partner is a way of keeping marital sex from becoming lacklustre. You can make life sexciting!
Michael Douglas is a relationship expert and the webmaster of where he provides sexual relationship advice for couples to have better sex and healthy relationships. Visit his collection of books on sexuality to discover modern sexual techniques and help dealing with serious sexual problems in men and women. Yet most men will talk about almost anything else other than their concerns about their sexual health.
Too many men however deny the problem, refuse to talk about it with anyone, blame their partners or themselves, begin withdrawing, and finally find reasons to avoid having sex. Medical conditions including diabetes, heart disease, and hypertension play a role, as well as many of the medications taken to treat these diseases. Cigarette smoking has a significant effect, as does excessive alcohol consumption.